Even vanillas like a butt plug
DEAR LADY A: I love your advice, but mostly as a voyeur, not as a sexual adventurer. I’m definitely “vanilla” but I’m comfortable with that and so is my partner. Even though I respect your
Dear Lady A: Dapper dildo, spotless strap
DEAR LADY A: My girlfriend complains that I’m a crazy OCD germaphobe, and maybe in general I am, I don’t know. I can admit that I wash my hands more than some people. But I still think that regardless of any overly cautious tendencies I…












