Short on experience (and tongue)
DEAR LADY A: I’m a bisexual ladycat in my mid 30s who has only had the opportunity to “go all the way” with one woman. It was very brief,...
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Lady A
Sex columnist and disciplinarian, Lady A is a headmistress with an emphasis on head. She may even spank you. But only if you like that kind of thing.
Out of work and not in the mood
DEAR LADY A: I have a boyfriend who gets very irritable before sex is possibly about to happen. He’s more likely to start a fight then than any other time...
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Sex, breasts & ultimatums
DEAR LADY A: I’ve been seriously considering getting a boob job. It’s not out of insecurity, I just know it would help me feel better about my overall...
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Surviving the ex-girlfriend
DEAR LADY A: My girlfriend’s ex-girlfriend is still in love with her. I know it, the ex-girlfriend knows it, but my girlfriend won’t admit it...
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Hearts, flowers and golden showers
DEAR LADY A: No offense, but I’m not a fetish person. My boyfriend isn’t either. I don’t think he’d appreciate it if after all these years, I...
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The first date rule
DEAR LADY A: I’m way gay so you know I love men’s bodies, but I’ve never been much into giving head because I’ve just never enjoyed the taste or the...
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Bring on the funk
DEAR LADY A: My question relates to sexuality and smells. I love a man with a little bit of a funk (pits, balls, crotch — not feet or ass) and abhor...
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Confused co-worker didn’t get her valentine
DEAR LADY A: I have a co-worker who’s gay like me, and who I’m very interested in. At the end of last year I made up my mind to actively pursue her....
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Nice guy is not very nice on Valentine’s Day
DEAR LADY A: Good morning, Mistress. I’ve been with my live-in girlfriend for about three years now and this will be the fifth Valentine’s Day...
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And if you threw a party: fucking at a swanky affair
DEAR LADY A: Let’s say you are a gay man, who mostly tops. From some of your more explicit columns, it’s not such a hard leap to make. You are older and...
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