Unrealistic deepthroat
DEAR LADY A: I have a question that you may be able to answer. My wife cannot fit “all of me” in her mouth. She has no gag reflex, but once I get to the
A heartfelt follow-up
This week, a kittenreader wrote a follow-up to a question that got my venom flowing and his magical martyr panties in a bunch. Here is my response to his feedback: DEAR LADY A: Thanks for the
Even vanillas like a butt plug
DEAR LADY A: I love your advice, but mostly as a voyeur, not as a sexual adventurer. I’m definitely “vanilla” but I’m comfortable with that and so is my partner. Even though I respect your
Everything but butt
DEAR LADY A: Something’s been bothering me. I’ve had a few relationships with no complaints and what I at least consider to be homo sex, lot’s of homo sex — mostly oral sex, but also a lot of
I respect her relationship, but…
DEAR LADY A: A good (female) friend of mine got married, and I was happy for her. She looked gorgeous in her dress, and very happy with her new husband. Then they divorced.
Flustered flatmate
DEAR LADY A: My roommate and I don’t know each other all that well. We have bedrooms right next to each other and what happened was our windows were open because the weather was so
Short on experience (and tongue)
DEAR LADY A: I’m a bisexual ladycat in my mid 30s who has only had the opportunity to “go all the way” with one woman. It was very brief, not much chance to participate
Out of work and not in the mood
DEAR LADY A: I have a boyfriend who gets very irritable before sex is possibly about to happen. He’s more likely to start a fight then than any other time and also more likely
Sex, breasts & ultimatums
DEAR LADY A: I’ve been seriously considering getting a boob job. It’s not out of insecurity, I just know it would help me feel better about my overall shape and the fact that one of
Surviving the ex-girlfriend
DEAR LADY A: My girlfriend’s ex-girlfriend is still in love with her. I know it, the ex-girlfriend knows it, but my girlfriend won’t admit it — to me, or herself. They are still best friends, despite the












